Mrs. Mary Regina 'Jeanne' Birkmire Duffy
- February 15, 1930 - March 27, 2012
- Cambridge, New York
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“Loving sister, aunt, and godmother, Jeanne was the strongest and most resilient woman. We take comfort in our many happy memories of her. May she...Read More »
1 of 19 | Posted by: Claire, Leslie, and Steven Dickson - PA
“I love my Grandmother and miss her very much. I remember the visitis that we had in Houston and New York. Please rest in peace. Lauren
2 of 19 | Posted by: Lauren Margaret Duffy - Houston, TX
“We were better for knowing Jean and having seen the kindness and caring your whole family provided in her final hours. We should all strive to be...Read More »
3 of 19 | Posted by: Jan, Steve, Daniel and Amanda - NY
Your love of, dedication to , and appreciation for your mother has been so apparent to me since our paths first crossed several years ago...Read More »
4 of 19 | Posted by: Susan Daviies - Hockessin, DE
“Your whole family is in our hearts and thoughts.
Eva, Leif, and Leyli
5 of 19 | Posted by: Eva Fitzgerald - NY
“Dear Carolyn, David, Liam and Roisin,
I am sad for your mom/grandmother's passing. I know that she felt all your love and support.
Sending you all...Read More »
6 of 19 | Posted by: Carole Liggett - Eagle Bridge, NY
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. From all the memories posted, it sounds like she was a wonderful, kind, gentle soul...Read More »
7 of 19 | Posted by: Linda Cargill - Portland, OR
“Much love and peace.
8 of 19 | Posted by: Maria Matrazzo
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Your mom's smile and kind words will continue to warm my heart always. Not a day has gone by that...Read More »
9 of 19 | Posted by: Brian Coyne - Hamburg, NY
“I have fond memories of Aunt Jeanne. While her family was living around the world, she would send packages to my brother and I, such as Panama...Read More »
10 of 19 | Posted by: David Birkmire - Ardmore, PA
“Carolynn and Family.
I had you in my thoughts just the other day and now not only are you and yours in my thoughts but also my prayers.
With...Read More »
11 of 19 | Posted by: Mary Baker Groth - Codorus, PA
“Dear Carolynn, David, and family,
I am sorry to hear about Aunt Jeanne's passing. She was blessed to be surrounded by your love when her time came,...Read More »
12 of 19 | Posted by: Betsy (Duffy) Vassallo - PA
“Mrs. Duffy's daughter, Carolyn, was one of my very best friends growing up in Panama. i spent a a good deal of time with Carolyn and her family when...Read More »
13 of 19 | Posted by: Kate Henninger - Houston, TX
“Dear Carolyn, David, Liam and Rosalie,
I am so sorry to hear of your mother and grandmothers passing. I have fond memories of her visiting us in...Read More »
14 of 19 | Posted by: Sandra Roland - Kensimgton, MD
“My heart goes out to you at this time of loss. It's been a long journey, filled
with love and challenges. Now it's time to rest.
15 of 19 | Posted by: debora klein - shushan, NY
“I was so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. It was so great that she was with her children at this time of her life. I hope I will see you at St....Read More »
16 of 19 | Posted by: Gerry Blum (Makem) - Philadelphia, PA
“Dear Carolynn and Family,
Please accept my deepest regrets for the loss of your mother and grandmother. I remember Mrs. Duffy well from high...Read More »
17 of 19 | Posted by: Lori Salow Marshall - Seattle, WA
“I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. I know how much you treasured her and respected all her needs at a very trying time of her life, and of...Read More »
18 of 19 | Posted by: Michele Keleher - Slingerlands , NY
“What a beautiful picture of your mother! I remember how much she loved jewelery, too! We had a lot of fun times in Port Charlotte 'back in the...Read More »
19 of 19 | Posted by: Mary Walker - Fayetteville, GA
Mary Regina Birkmire Duffy, 82, died Tuesday, March 27, 2012, at her daughter's home in Cambridge, NY. She was the widow of Thomas J. Duffy, who died in 2007.
Born February 15, 1930, in Manayunk, PA, Jeanne was the daughter of the late Thomas Joseph and Regina Marie (Kuhn) Birkmire. She graduated from Ravenhill Academy, Germantown, PA, Class of 1948. She and her beloved husband were married on July 18, 1953, at St. Mary of the Assumption in Manayunk.
Jeanne chose to be a homemaker and stay-at-home mom, which had unusual challenges since her husband's work with the United States government involved world travel. The family lived in Manayunk, Bethesda and Rockville, Maryland, Taipei, Taiwan, the Canal Zone, and Port Charlotte, Florida.
While living in Port Charlotte, she was the Assistant Condominium Manager at the Charlotte Square Condominium Association, retiring in 1996.
After her husband's death, she moved to the Danforth Adult Care Center in Hoosick Falls, NY, to be near family. For several months she lived with her daughter's family in Cambridge.
Jeanne loved to travel and did so extensively throughout the United States, the Far East, Asia, Latin and South America. Shopping was her favorite "hobby," and she enjoyed photography, solving crossword puzzles, genealogy, calligraphy, and decorating cakes. She was famous for her "shrimp dip."
She is survived by four children, Martin Duffy, and wife Simone, of Houston, TX, Andrew Duffy, of Princeton, NJ, Regina Carson, and husband Ray, of Pittsburgh, PA, and Carolynn Presser, and husband David, of Cambridge, NY; seven beloved grandchildren, Sara, Hunter, Matthew, Liam, Lauren, Roisin, and Rachel; three siblings, Claire B. Dickson, Thomas J. Birkmire, Sr., and JoAnn B. Marshall; three sisters-in-law, Veronica D. Bellis, Mary T. Duffy, and Joan Crane, and dozens of treasured nieces and nephews, and their families.
Jeanne is predeceased by the following family: Veronica E. (Davies) Duffy, Mary V. (Duffy) and James B McCaffrey; Helen B. (Duffy) Makem Johnson; Mahlon Makem; Catherine T. (Duffy) and Thomas J. McAllister; Margaret M. (Duffy) and James P. Dunn; Eugene C. Duffy; Maurice J. Duffy; John Bellis; Margaret (Swartz) Birkmire; Samuel J. Marshall, Sr.; and Herbert E. Dickson.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Mary of the Assumption, Manayunk, PA, on a date to be announced.
For those wishing to remember Jeanne in a special way, the family suggests donations be made to St. Jude's Children's Research Hospital (www.stjude.org); Maryknoll Lay Missioners (www.maryknolllaymissioners.org); the Dementia Care Foundation (www.dementiacarefoundation.org) or the Consumer Reports Foundation (www.consumerreports.org) .
On Monday, April 23, 2012, the family invites friends to join them for a Memorial Celebration at the Danforth Adult Care Center, 19 Danforth Street, Hoosick Falls, New York. The celebration will start at 10:00 AM with Jeff Peck, of St. Patrick's Church, officiating.